π The beginning of a new year is the perfect time to reassess your plans, hopes and dreams - so I really hope you have a great goal in mind for yourself this year?
I used to plan to lose 10 pounds at the beginning of each new year, but then ended up putting more weight on!
It was a viscous cycleπ that was spiralling out of control.
I believed I could lose the weight, but somehow that confidence encouraged me to not worry about it π (since I figured I could get rid of it whenever I wanted).
I got so used to gaining weight every year that I started to expect it, take it for granted and rationalize it as a natural part of growing older β³.
I told myself I was simply entering my Big Lebowski period πΏ as a way of feeling better about it.
But with every weight increase I noticed, π± my self esteem decreased proportionately.
The problem wasn’t really my diet, even though there were things I ate that weren’t that great for me πͺπ«πΏππ©π§π¨!
The problem was my MINDSET π§
As much as I tried to ignore the impact of my eating habits, I found it impossible not to confront the changes when I was forced to watch my fat self on screen a few years ago π¬.
I’d just wrapped up shooting the content for my Winning Over Worry course: the ABC’s of Anxiety.
Having to watch myself on screen π₯ for hours on end during the editing process was kind of upsetting.
If I carried on increasing weight I could look forward to all kinds of health problems in my future - like knee problems π¦―π¦½π¦Ό, digestion problems (not to mention the increased risk of developing complications with Covid π¦ these days!)
But the future isn’t carved in stone πΏ- and when you become determined to succeed π― - everything can changeβοΈ
I got really clear π on what was in it for me to lose the weight 𧩠and I started to prioritize being happy by being healthy, over being temporarily happy because of a fleeting mouthful of foodπ
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Within just a few weeks of me respecting my decision, the weights started melting off me βοΈ!
Hoping something happens and daydreaming π» about it, can make us feel better in our fantasies.
But if you really want to be successful at something this year π, making a solid plan π― to accomplish it is going to make a big difference .
If you have not already done so, put aside a little time this week to seek some clarity πͺ about your repetitive thought habits and their consequences.
And then make a decision that you are going to update your thinking to better reflect the best version of yourself so you can begin living your best life π₯.
Your MINDSET π§ is a habit of thinking.
Thankfully you cannot avoid changing.
βThe question is: Are you going to be in control of a change that you’ve decided for yourself… or is life going to make the decision for youβ
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